Let me preface my story by saying I never raised my voice at the man. And I know I parked illegally. I just feel like I need to clear the air before I tell my story. :)
Josh was meeting with a few guys at church for a discipleship thing and my dad was studying for school, so my mom, Brody and I decided to go to Q'Doba for dollar taco night. It's a super great deal and we love to go. I met mom in a parking lot that we always park in when we go to Q'doba and I go there almost weekly. I have been going there weekly for 2 years and never once have I had the experience I did last night.
Yes, there are 2 large signs in the parking lot that tell you not to park there unless you are a customer of the gym, the bookstore, or the laundry mat. People do it daily...probably hourly. And honestly, I would guess 80-90% of the cars in that parking lot do not belong to someone at one of those places. Seriously, how would they ever know that you weren't at one of those 3 places? The answer is they wouldn't unless someone called the tow company and told them. Oh yes, it happened to us last night.
Mom and I went in to eat and about 45 minutes later we walked out to the spots where our cars should have been but our cars were not there. I thought I was having a mom moment or even a blond moment so I looked around thinking maybe I forgot where I parked, but oh no, I was where I parked but my car was not! Oddly, the cars that were on either side of my mom and I and the one in between us were all there. Actually, the entire lot was full of cars and just 2 cars were missing. My car and her car.
What's a girl to do? I called Josh, who was with his group at church. He didn't answer the first time, so I immediately called back. That's the universal sign for "we have a problem" if I call over and over. The second time I called he answered in a whisper voice. I started crying telling him what happened. He was just sooo sweet. He is always sweet but I love that in stressful situations, he is so calm and level headed. I, on the other hand, am not. He told me he would leave church and call the towing company. Their number was posted in the parking lot. He told me not to worry at all, that we would have the cars back in no time and that it wasn't anything to worry or be upset about. Thanks goodness for him saving the day.
A few minutes later he called me back and told me the man who towed our cars said an employee at the gym watched my mom and I park and walk away from our cars into the restaurant and then called and had our cars towed. To top it off, he only had 2 cars towed in the entire lot. Can you guess whose they were???
Really? There were a a ton of people parked there that were eating in the restaurant with us and he had us towed. What do you think I did? I marched my little self over to the gym to talk to the man who had us towed. He picked a bad day to mess with me because I was hormonal. You know that feeling?
I walked into the gym and was greeted by some little sorority girl. Oh my word. I know I was a college sorority girl not that long ago, but for the love of everything good. If she told me one more time that I parked illegally, I was about to jump the counter. I told her that the tow guy told us someone from the gym had us towed and the random guy who was cleaning the gym equipment told me it was him. He said he watched us parked and waited for us to walk in and then he called on us. Then, he topped it off by saying that he couldn't have any of the other cars towed because he didn't watch them walk in, but since he watched us he just had our 2 cars towed. I looked out in the parking lot and counted 33 cars. There were 4 people in the gym so 29 cars were illegally parked and he had 2 towed. 2 cars.
Here's the deal. If every illegally parked car in the parking lot was towed then I wouldn't have been complaining. I know we parked illegally. And if we all had been towed then we all deserved it. That wasn't the issue. But we were the only two people he picked on. While I was talking to him, I watched 6 more cars park illegally and so did he, but he didn't call on a single one of them. Is anyone else seeing the problem here?
I basically told him in as calm of a voice as I could exactly what I felt about the situation. I didn't chew him out, but I told him how ridiculous it was that his idea of "enforcing the parking rules" was to have two females' cars towed, and one of them had a baby. He just looked at me. And little sorority girl kept saying, "But you parked illegally!" Oh my word sorority girl. Go tease your hair.
I asked him why he didn't just come ask us to move if he watched us park and he said that people have cussed him out for doing that so now he just has cars towed. Super.
I then thanked him for causing me to have no way to legally go get my car since we only have one convertible car seat and it was towed away. I thanked him for turning dollar taco night into $272 taco night. I thanked him that my son was sitting in poop because his diaper bag was towed away. I thanked him for choosing to pick out 2 woman and have their cars towed when I watched at least 10 different men park in the parking lot at the same time as us.
And then we left. Got our cars. The only two cars at the towing place. And paid $0 to get them back. Thank you, Lord.
I will never park in that parking lot again.